To locate and master the woman's G-spot, face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go.
First of all, the G-spot is easiest to locate when a woman is sexually aroused, so don't stint on your foreplay first. (You knew I would get that in!)
To locate and master the woman's G-spot, face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go. Then crook it up toward yourself in a "come hither" motion, sliding your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall. (Make sure you have your fingernails clipped short and buffed before you do this -- sharp fingernails will definitely spoil the effort.) This rough or slightly ridged area is the "G-spot," and touching it will often cause a woman to react with surprise or pleasure.
Step one: Penetration and G-spot stimulation.
Firstly you will want to find the G-spot. While a lot of woman joke that this spot is difficult to find, it is pretty easy as long as she doesn't mind being penetrated by your fingers (Hint: use a lot of lube if she isn't used to the feeling). Have her lie on her back with her legs open and gently enter her and stroke your fingers along the upper side of her vagina. At some point you should feel a small section of flesh that has a different feeling to the surrounding flesh (Usually a bit harder texture). You can use her body language to guide you to this spot or you can use your voice to ask her in a sexual way whether it feels good or not.
Step two: Building Up to the Female Ejaculation Orgasm
Now, using gentle finger curls, build her up to the orgasm. This is where communication is very important as every woman is different in how hard and fast they like their G-spot to be caressed. Some girls will love harder and more rapid movements; others prefer softer and more tender motions; still others may find G-spot stimulation too intense and prefer you to touch their clitoris. Again communication, even if it is as simple as `that feels good, doesn't it?`, is key. Also be aware that you will start softer and lighter and increase the speed and pressure of touch, so make sure that you don`t go too hard and fast at the beginning and desensitize her!
Step three: the Squirting Orgasm/ Female Ejaculation Orgasm
As you increase the motion, start to add a motion of your arm into it. By bending your arm a little, you can increase the pressure and make it more likely that she orgasms. Despite all this stimulation, many women find that they still can`t have a squirting orgasm, because the sudden rush of fluid makes them think that they are about to pee and they unintentionally `block out` the orgasm. This can again be prevented by using your voice and gently guiding her through the orgasm. Both during sex and afterward, make sure that she knows to relax and push out, this will make it far more likely that she will orgasm.
What Exactly Is The G-Spot?
It is the bean-shaped, spongy tissue of the paraurethral gland, which is analogous to the male prostate. The actual area is only about the size of a quarter, but it feels rougher to the touch than the surrounding tissue. Because the G-spot is composed of erectile tissue, it swells up when blood rushes to it -- especially if you learn how to master the woman's G-spot effectively.
It is located about one to two inches back from the vaginal opening inside the front vaginal wall. The "front" wall is the wall of the vagina on the same side as her belly button.
It is located about one to two inches back from the vaginal opening inside the front vaginal wall. The "front" wall is the wall of the vagina on the same side as her belly button.
How Sexual Communication can Give Her a Better Orgasm
Let`s be honest here, in this new Millenium, most women have had an orgasm at some point in their lives. Therefore the goal for men now is not simply to give her an orgasm, but also to distinguish themselves. Women are simply a lot more attracted to guys that surprise and interest them: therefore you should always be looking to make the sex better and more exciting for her. One of the best ways to do this is to give her an orgasm that she has never had before. Welcome to the ultimate female orgasm: the female ejaculation orgasm (Also known as the squirting orgasm).
The Female Ejaculation Orgasm/ Squirting Orgasm
Making her ejaculate can seem tricky at first for guys, but it is actually as straightforward as other kinds of orgasms as long as men know what they are doing and she knows what is happening too. That`s right one of the key things that guys get wrong is that they think of themselves too much and forget that she also needs to understand the process too. Luckily this guide will tell you exactly what to say to her and what techniques to use to give her a massive orgasm.
